If I don’t know about it, then I don’t have to take responsibility
It is an interesting thing that happens in my work with people. Several people will all have a similar issue come up at about the same time. And, this week the thing that I heard in a few different ways, but all meaning the same, was “if I don’t know about something, then I can […]
What other people think of me is none of my business
I often talk with people about the idea that they spend a lot of time worried about what other people think of them, or are saying about them, or just in general comparing themselves to others. This focus is an “External Focus”; everything outside of me controls my emotional states, and in this focus we […]
Posted at 1:46 pm on March 25, 2012 | 1 comment | Filed Under: Becoming Human, How we Think | read on
